The First Steps Towards Planning Your Dream Asian Wedding

Congratulations on your engagement! Whether you're planning a Hindu, Sikh or Muslim wedding, starting the journey can seem daunting, filled with traditions and many ceremonies.

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1. Setting a Date

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Choosing the right date is crucial, with many opting for an auspicious day. While some families prefer consulting a Pandit (priest) to find a date that aligns with their horoscopes, it's entirely optional. Selecting a meaningful date, whether based on astrological advice or personal significance, marks the beginning of your Asian wedding planning journey. This chosen date, often referred to as the “Muhurat,” serves as the foundational step in starting your wedding planning journey. 

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2. Drafting a Budget

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Prior to jumping into planning, establishing a budget is essential. Setting a clear budget early on aids in managing expectations and the allocation of funds across various elements like the venue, attire, catering, and décor. Include your families in this dialogue to understand their contributions and expectations.

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3. Creating the Guest List

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The guest list for an Asian wedding can quickly become large, given the emphasis on community and family. Begin by listing immediate family and close friends, then extend to include extended family, acquaintances, and colleagues. Bear in mind, your guest count will significantly influence your choice of venue and budgeting.

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4. Choosing a Venue

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With your date set, budget outlined, and a rough guest list at hand, it’s time to find the perfect wedding venue. Seek spaces that can accommodate cultural wedding ceremonies, which often entail specific rituals and require space. From traditional banquet halls to picturesque outdoor settings, ensure the venue resonates with your vision and can comfortably host your guests.

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5. Hiring Wedding Vendors

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Your wedding team will be pivotal in helping your vision come to life. Start your research and booking of key vendors such as photographers, caterers, decorators and entertainment. Personal recommendations and vendor reviews can prove invaluable in this.

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6. Designing Your Invitations

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Your Asian wedding invitation offers the first glimpse into your wedding’s style and tone. Opt for a design that mirrors both your personalities and the essence of your celebration. Consider a bespoke invitation design that integrates traditional motifs, like the lotus or peacock, and selecting a card that includes details of the various ceremonies involved in your wedding.

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7. Planning Your Outfits

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Begin exploring your options for traditional wear, such as sarees, lehengas, and sherwanis, bearing in mind the ceremonies you’ll be hosting. Custom fittings and bespoke designs can be time-consuming, so initiating this process early is advisable.

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8. Mapping Out the Ceremonies

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An Asian wedding comprises a series of ceremonies, each with its own significance. From the Mehendi and Sangeet to the Haldi, the wedding ceremony, and the reception, outline the ceremonies you wish to include. This aids in planning the schedule and logistics for the days of celebration.

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Final Thoughts

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The journey to your wedding is a combination of tradition, love, and celebration. As you navigate these initial planning stages, remember to savour each moment. Your wedding is a testament to your love and the rich cultural heritage you share. Happy planning!